This 15th August India celebrated its 60th year of Independence. Lot have been changed in India as a country whatever our forefathers thought. India Boasts of becoming super power in near future. The officalls even dare to set goals till 2020 for acheiveing it. Is it a just merely a hyped situation in line with other strong economies or India is really in such a poised condition. There are lot to learn from the strong economies. Lets just compare ourselves with Yanks a little bit.
Why American are ahead of whole World
The Analysis why America is ruler of whole world and what we can learn from them.
Time Management:
We all have 24 hours a day – Fact of life
But how we utilize and put this time in to productive work that matters. They are always on move continuously working hard, innovating and improvising.
Educational System:
The educational system of Americans stresses on overall development of an individual than just cramming certain books. Education counseling and selecting right carrier path according to individual skills play a vital role in developing passion for something worth the effort.
Competition & Innovation:
Competition is the way to getting best out of somebody. There is major stress on the competition from the childhood and Americans are not ready to take defeat in their stride, so the result is that they are relentlessly innovating new methods and technology.
Courage:
Courage is the backbone of leadership. Until u do not have courage to act on some of the brilliant ideas u can not move ahead. American dream bigger and willing to spend their entire life chasing dreams whatever it may comes.
Although India is slowly waking from slumber and destined to move ahead in elite group thanks to globalization but we would like to know what the reason India lacks behind was and what was the tyranny of India as a nation?
1. We always blamed government for even slightest of the mishappening events in our lives.
2. We did not innovate; we like to stick with same old conventional methods.
3. We kept on idealizing and waste too much time in religious ceremonies.
4. Neither we party harder nor did we work hard.
5. We wasted too much time on useless chatter and discussing America and other progressive nations.
6. We did not value the need of competition and was scared of it.
7. We were less united for a common cause than Americans.
8. We prefer Nepotism till date than a person most suitable for any position.
9. We were not life long learners and only stick to one field in which we pursue our carrier.
Thursday, August 16, 2007
Sunday, July 8, 2007
VJ The Girl Next Door
Day 4
"She is the one i was waiting for, i have found her finally" said Ronki on waking
"Abbe parson ki uttri nahin kia (Did not boozing effect went away which u drunk two days before), whom u are talking about" said Mohan.
"VJ"
"Yaar i love her" said Ronki
"Are u nuts, abbe kal raat ko to baat hui hai, kitne der baat ki (u talked to her only yesterday night and how long u kept talking)" said Mohan.
"Till 3 in the morning and i think we have lot in comon, Bas aaj se woh teri bhabhi (from today onwards she is your sister -in -law)" replied Ronki.
"Oh My gosh!! u have completly lost it" siad Mohan and went to get ready.
Ronki was too happy and could not believe he can talk that much long to a gal and a gal can care so much about him. He soon got out off bed and got ready and wanted to go office quickly so that he could talk to her on intenet as that would be cheaper and he had promised her to talk to her in the morning.
At office
Anna Reddy was celebrating his 28th burday today and every body wished him and expected a party. The july month was such a partying season at the office as majority of the burdays of the companys employees falls in this month. The "Creative Projects Department" was leading in no of people who have burday in the month of july and it had become an annoying practise for some of the employees as they have to submit "Rs 100" for the cake which the order on behalf of the Host and Host always play tricker just giving smosas and dhoklas.
HRD presented a flowered bookey to Anna to wished him. Ronki was soon chatting to VJ. Mohan was in oblivion about chinki and wanted to know his name as he is new and did not remember the names of many which were told to him during the induction. Mrs Rani became the store house for his inquistiveness and he inquired about her.
"U mean Rajni" the gal in "Finance Department" she said.
"Oh what a nice name" reacted Mohan like he has never heard of this common name.
"U seems like u have hots for Rajni, Do not you?" Mrs Rani Inquired.
" I am in love with her" came da reply.
"Oh my, oh my, another love storey in making in the office" said Mrs Rani
"Another, Whats the first one" asked Mohan.
"U do not know? u should, I am talkin about Ronki and Sapna" said Mrs Rani.
who could have told Mrs Rani that how Ronki was ditched by Sapna and how our dude had found new gal VJ.
"Whatever", he said and thanked Mrs Rani and went in his day dreaming.
Lunch Time Came and went but mohan could not able to pass even a "Hi" to her.
A small party went around in the evening. Its such a typical offical party where every senior get along with other senior in somewhat fashoinable manner and juniors were thinking about a exit. After the cake and the "panner pakods (cheese Snacks)" were served and everybody had his share of laughs and gags, Anna declared he is taking out his department for a real party after the office. Who would refuse as everybody likes to go out and have lot of beers and alchol when someone else is paying. All of the "Creative Projects" Department soon packed into cars of their seniors and hedaded for "Gravity" the lounge and pub in sector 18 of "andheri west". Arun and Vikas were the only invites from outside the "Creative Projects department".
Soon the bottles started emptying and young bloods were shaking there heads on music beats. It was such a enigma for older generation to found about why youngsters keep swinging their heads on loud music which they dot understand a word. The Loud rock was annoying some of the top mangement and DJ was told not to play too loud, but the gravity is not subsidary of "Jhunjjhun Wala Group". Soon there were altercations with others and the gang had to move out to avoid any mishappeningas as every body was enjoying too much. After boozing the "Dutch Courage" is induced even in to the worst coward so to avoid the situation become worse all decided to go to someplace else. The bill was payed by "Director" and they all moved to "Tantra", same scene there. every body was wondering where to go when Sunil pal came up with a brillant idea.
"Why not our hostle" said Sunil Pal
"Nobody checks there and we can have our way, I agree" Said Rajesh
All agreed and everybody even the director and VP went to Hostle and the bottle of grains were purchased on the way. The boozing continued till late in the night and outsiders went their homes early wishing Anna.
Ronki again talked to VJ till 3 in the morning
To be continued........
"She is the one i was waiting for, i have found her finally" said Ronki on waking
"Abbe parson ki uttri nahin kia (Did not boozing effect went away which u drunk two days before), whom u are talking about" said Mohan.
"VJ"
"Yaar i love her" said Ronki
"Are u nuts, abbe kal raat ko to baat hui hai, kitne der baat ki (u talked to her only yesterday night and how long u kept talking)" said Mohan.
"Till 3 in the morning and i think we have lot in comon, Bas aaj se woh teri bhabhi (from today onwards she is your sister -in -law)" replied Ronki.
"Oh My gosh!! u have completly lost it" siad Mohan and went to get ready.
Ronki was too happy and could not believe he can talk that much long to a gal and a gal can care so much about him. He soon got out off bed and got ready and wanted to go office quickly so that he could talk to her on intenet as that would be cheaper and he had promised her to talk to her in the morning.
At office
Anna Reddy was celebrating his 28th burday today and every body wished him and expected a party. The july month was such a partying season at the office as majority of the burdays of the companys employees falls in this month. The "Creative Projects Department" was leading in no of people who have burday in the month of july and it had become an annoying practise for some of the employees as they have to submit "Rs 100" for the cake which the order on behalf of the Host and Host always play tricker just giving smosas and dhoklas.
HRD presented a flowered bookey to Anna to wished him. Ronki was soon chatting to VJ. Mohan was in oblivion about chinki and wanted to know his name as he is new and did not remember the names of many which were told to him during the induction. Mrs Rani became the store house for his inquistiveness and he inquired about her.
"U mean Rajni" the gal in "Finance Department" she said.
"Oh what a nice name" reacted Mohan like he has never heard of this common name.
"U seems like u have hots for Rajni, Do not you?" Mrs Rani Inquired.
" I am in love with her" came da reply.
"Oh my, oh my, another love storey in making in the office" said Mrs Rani
"Another, Whats the first one" asked Mohan.
"U do not know? u should, I am talkin about Ronki and Sapna" said Mrs Rani.
who could have told Mrs Rani that how Ronki was ditched by Sapna and how our dude had found new gal VJ.
"Whatever", he said and thanked Mrs Rani and went in his day dreaming.
Lunch Time Came and went but mohan could not able to pass even a "Hi" to her.
A small party went around in the evening. Its such a typical offical party where every senior get along with other senior in somewhat fashoinable manner and juniors were thinking about a exit. After the cake and the "panner pakods (cheese Snacks)" were served and everybody had his share of laughs and gags, Anna declared he is taking out his department for a real party after the office. Who would refuse as everybody likes to go out and have lot of beers and alchol when someone else is paying. All of the "Creative Projects" Department soon packed into cars of their seniors and hedaded for "Gravity" the lounge and pub in sector 18 of "andheri west". Arun and Vikas were the only invites from outside the "Creative Projects department".
Soon the bottles started emptying and young bloods were shaking there heads on music beats. It was such a enigma for older generation to found about why youngsters keep swinging their heads on loud music which they dot understand a word. The Loud rock was annoying some of the top mangement and DJ was told not to play too loud, but the gravity is not subsidary of "Jhunjjhun Wala Group". Soon there were altercations with others and the gang had to move out to avoid any mishappeningas as every body was enjoying too much. After boozing the "Dutch Courage" is induced even in to the worst coward so to avoid the situation become worse all decided to go to someplace else. The bill was payed by "Director" and they all moved to "Tantra", same scene there. every body was wondering where to go when Sunil pal came up with a brillant idea.
"Why not our hostle" said Sunil Pal
"Nobody checks there and we can have our way, I agree" Said Rajesh
All agreed and everybody even the director and VP went to Hostle and the bottle of grains were purchased on the way. The boozing continued till late in the night and outsiders went their homes early wishing Anna.
Ronki again talked to VJ till 3 in the morning
To be continued........
The Knock Out Babe
Day 3
Mitran ne meri ishaq naal peychaan ki
Mitt jaye zidd jad apnun di.......
Namste London (Hindi Movie)
The day started off with regular headache with which everybody is used to now. Nothing new happened till Ronki was rumoured in office about sapna by Mr. Arun (The right arm and strong aide the MD) that was bound to create havoc in ronki's life.
"Abbe us ki to Engagement huyi hai (Dude she is already engaged)" Revealed Mr. Arun when he found Ronki kept staring Sapna.
"What, You gotta be kidding me, I dot believe in you" said Ronki completly denying his authoritiness and believing she had been incarcinated in this world for him.
But Mr. Arun remained admant and Ronki was soon in ambivalence and thought what would happen if this is true. Mr. Arun the real insider presented strong alebi Mr. Devi Parsad (the Guy in Purchase Department) for his justification. Arun told Ronki he himself had given lift many times to sapna on his bike as he is known to her prior to joining here and he was also in the competition as who in this world wouldn't want to be with her.
Aruns revealation about sapnas engagemnt had an immediate effect on Ronki which could be seen on his face. He just kept thinking about her all day long cursuing god, arun, devi and himself. She just completly knocked him out.......
Mohan's Take
Mohan was known in collegaue circle as the guy who is always busy without work, he is always exploring and was well known for his daily changing "pyars (loves)". He was guy next door somewhat attractive but not a complete dude. He can always be in love anywhere any time just at a flash whether its on road, partys, at night oe even in early morning. The biggest tyrany is that he never ever got a chance to spoke to any of the girl whom with he falls in love. He just kept his huge amount of love for a girl to himself.
After usuall chatting and flirting on internet till Lunch time all went to lunch room along with Mrs Rani (Secretary to Director and really caring and generous person) when Mohan's eyes met with someone. She was short, white, beautiful, have long hair but the only problem with her was that she belongs to "Chinese race Ching Pung Lee". Mohan whistle blowed about his latest pyar immediately to everybody.
"Yakkkkkkkk, U r mad, show some standard, get a life etc." was the immediate response almost from everybody.
But Mohan had not learnt in his life to listen to anybody except himself. He was soon dreaming about her. The "Namaste London (a Hindi Movie)" images poped out in his mind and he was finding ways to approach her, that he always does everytime when he is in love but could not buy himself courage. He kept on starring her on lunch table, obviously she noticed and taken aback by Mohans gesture.
Its really starnge u can not caught women ongoling men and Mohan was soon to be discourged, its one another trait in him that he always expect girl to look directly in to his eyes and wanted that to continue. Perhaps he hasn't learnt that men and women are as different as Mars and Venus. He sat on his workstation thinking how some ugly and pathetic guys were able to get some really stunning babes afterall he is lot better than those guys which he saw couple of days back in "Juhu" Beach. He has been analyzing about this phenomenon and is bound to write a book when he would find an answer about this strange couple union. He has searched lot of internet sites (from www. getgirls.com to www.relationship.com and list goes on and on) and read lot of books but nothing seems to be working in his case. Perhap someday poor Mohan will learn action works better than too much idealization and making abstract theorys.
All were heading to hostle when Ronki broke the silence in cab and said he had met a girl on orkut in named "V.J." . She was from delhi where Ronki would be deputated latter and she had given no to him and he would be calling her @ 10 in the night. To get a number from a gal is a real achievement and that on very first time u chatted with her. Every body adviced him what he should do and what to talk about. Love guru Mohan suggested some punchlines.
Everybody relaxed in hostle and was happy that one more day passed without work. No boozing followed today as Mr. Rajesh and Sunil were out today and only Mohan was sad today.
After having their dinner Ronki called VJ @ 10 and their chatter continued till 3 in the morning.
To be Continued.......
Mitran ne meri ishaq naal peychaan ki
Mitt jaye zidd jad apnun di.......
Namste London (Hindi Movie)
The day started off with regular headache with which everybody is used to now. Nothing new happened till Ronki was rumoured in office about sapna by Mr. Arun (The right arm and strong aide the MD) that was bound to create havoc in ronki's life.
"Abbe us ki to Engagement huyi hai (Dude she is already engaged)" Revealed Mr. Arun when he found Ronki kept staring Sapna.
"What, You gotta be kidding me, I dot believe in you" said Ronki completly denying his authoritiness and believing she had been incarcinated in this world for him.
But Mr. Arun remained admant and Ronki was soon in ambivalence and thought what would happen if this is true. Mr. Arun the real insider presented strong alebi Mr. Devi Parsad (the Guy in Purchase Department) for his justification. Arun told Ronki he himself had given lift many times to sapna on his bike as he is known to her prior to joining here and he was also in the competition as who in this world wouldn't want to be with her.
Aruns revealation about sapnas engagemnt had an immediate effect on Ronki which could be seen on his face. He just kept thinking about her all day long cursuing god, arun, devi and himself. She just completly knocked him out.......
Mohan's Take
Mohan was known in collegaue circle as the guy who is always busy without work, he is always exploring and was well known for his daily changing "pyars (loves)". He was guy next door somewhat attractive but not a complete dude. He can always be in love anywhere any time just at a flash whether its on road, partys, at night oe even in early morning. The biggest tyrany is that he never ever got a chance to spoke to any of the girl whom with he falls in love. He just kept his huge amount of love for a girl to himself.
After usuall chatting and flirting on internet till Lunch time all went to lunch room along with Mrs Rani (Secretary to Director and really caring and generous person) when Mohan's eyes met with someone. She was short, white, beautiful, have long hair but the only problem with her was that she belongs to "Chinese race Ching Pung Lee". Mohan whistle blowed about his latest pyar immediately to everybody.
"Yakkkkkkkk, U r mad, show some standard, get a life etc." was the immediate response almost from everybody.
But Mohan had not learnt in his life to listen to anybody except himself. He was soon dreaming about her. The "Namaste London (a Hindi Movie)" images poped out in his mind and he was finding ways to approach her, that he always does everytime when he is in love but could not buy himself courage. He kept on starring her on lunch table, obviously she noticed and taken aback by Mohans gesture.
Its really starnge u can not caught women ongoling men and Mohan was soon to be discourged, its one another trait in him that he always expect girl to look directly in to his eyes and wanted that to continue. Perhaps he hasn't learnt that men and women are as different as Mars and Venus. He sat on his workstation thinking how some ugly and pathetic guys were able to get some really stunning babes afterall he is lot better than those guys which he saw couple of days back in "Juhu" Beach. He has been analyzing about this phenomenon and is bound to write a book when he would find an answer about this strange couple union. He has searched lot of internet sites (from www. getgirls.com to www.relationship.com and list goes on and on) and read lot of books but nothing seems to be working in his case. Perhap someday poor Mohan will learn action works better than too much idealization and making abstract theorys.
All were heading to hostle when Ronki broke the silence in cab and said he had met a girl on orkut in named "V.J." . She was from delhi where Ronki would be deputated latter and she had given no to him and he would be calling her @ 10 in the night. To get a number from a gal is a real achievement and that on very first time u chatted with her. Every body adviced him what he should do and what to talk about. Love guru Mohan suggested some punchlines.
Everybody relaxed in hostle and was happy that one more day passed without work. No boozing followed today as Mr. Rajesh and Sunil were out today and only Mohan was sad today.
After having their dinner Ronki called VJ @ 10 and their chatter continued till 3 in the morning.
To be Continued.......
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
Ronki's Day Out!!!!!!!
Day 2
After hitting the snooze button of the alarm for 3 times Ronki finally manged to get out of bed with head aching and soaring like hell. This has become an annoying practise daily for Ronki as Mohan still not compliant to setting alarm bit late and this had lead to altercations between duo many times. Ronki believe in doozing till late in the morning and usually late in reaching the office as he spent sleepness nights because he is insomanic and now as he is in love made him fantasise about Sapna and more sleepness nights lay ahead. Mohan was still in bed and sleeping, it may seem he hadn't heard the alarm which is usually the case when he drink the night before. It was time for Ronki to prove to Mohan that he can also get ready early so he without disturbing Mohan started proceedings of the day.
Ronki, Anna, Rajesh and Deven reached the office earlier than the schedule time which has become habbit with other 3. Ronki like alwayz was not feeling energetic and quickly searched for his long time, true and honest associate Sumit as he has some secret ways of providing energy in the forms of Navy Cut, Gold Flake and Classic Mild too. And also when u believe u r in love, the Caffeine and Grass become an indespensible part of your daily routine. The day starts off for most of people in the company
by planning about which work will take priority whether chatting, downloading, e-mailing, wallpapers, movies, songs or discussing and advicing other colleagues about company and witting about top management. Company is about to launch new product and top brass is busy discussing and planning about it whereas junior and middle management is somewhat relaxed and their work will start after top management approves the product. Ronki list was alwayz full of chatting and dating over internnet. He has membership of some of the elite frndship clubs prevaling over internet. But as he has finaaly found her dreamate chatting with others just seemed to immaterialistic.
Ronki just outside where he was grassing and waiting anxiously for Sapna's Arrival @ office and was fantasing about her when some earth shattering, mind boggling happen. Sapna was sitting on back of the bike with a guy who has " I hate the Whole World" look and strong pyshique. A real dude he was and Ronki was a complete looser compared to him. Ronki could not believe what he just saw. Ronkis nerves just ripped apart, he was instantenously in to mantel shock. He just left her outside the building and left. As she was about to move in to the building she noticed Ronki and waved "Hi". "Hello" said ronki with a cold face. "What Happened, Is everything All right??" she enquired. What could Ronki say that my life has been ruined by you. "Nothing, Just some sleep problems" Ronki Replied.
After passing the regular "Hi" and "Hellos" to other employees to keep the culture going Ronki sat @ his desk with his head pointing upwards and cursing god when he was interrupted by Mohan & Sunil who just arrived. Sunihis punjabi Style asked Ronki "Hor bhi Kake Kidan Pher, Aaj Jaldi, Ki kehndi hai Bharjai pher(Hi Dude!!, Wassup, Today Early, Howz Sister-in-Law)" Instead of laughing Ronki face reflected that he did not like this question and Mohan realized this and asked whats the matter. Ronki needed some one to pile on his hatered feeling about the guy and he quickly narrated the story. "Oh shit!!!" Came the reply. Even Sunil and Mohan were shocked as they were planning on the way from Hostel to Office that they would ask Sapna to find two gals for them when she will become our bhabhi. Their Dreams were also doomed.
The duo settled to their seats and was planning and thinking about any way out. 2 or 3 hours have been passed when the Phone of Ronki satrted ringing. Sapna was on the line. After the generall disussion she finally asked Ronki if he had noticed she came along with her brother in the morning on bike and whether he liked him. "Yes Yes Of course!!! He is a great dude!!!, What a bhai" said Ronki. Ronki could not believe. Ronki alwayz believe God can not be so cruel to him.
"Could Yoy please do me a favour" said sapna.
"My pleasure, Anything for You" said Ronki.
"Actually he is without a job, and he needs a job badly. Would u be kind enough to forward his Resume to HR Deptt." she requested.
"Ya Ya Forward it on my ID and i will made him recruitted by the company" said ronki. Its such a feeling that gal u loved demanded something from u for the very first time and u start believing all the things in the world are under your control even the HR and CEO of the company and nobody can dare to disrespect and challenge ur authority.
"Thanks, i would be sending" She said and replaced the reciever.
Ronki was now as happy as anybody can in this whole world. He instantenously broke this such a wonderful news to others. He got to made his Brother-in-Law enter in this company @ any cost and that to very quickly. Went off to Mr. Panda of HR for discussion and get to know company is currently on hold of fresh recriutment. He insisted further that whether any junior
position is vaccant. Even the Peons position were full. and by looking @ the CV of her brother Peon position would seem distant. Peon was Gradutae an knew english. But Prem her brother stopped his Study during 3rd year of BA and had lot of grammatical errors in his CV. Though he had listed lot of Hobbys in his CV such as Karate, Tawekondo, Boxing etc. There can not be any job in the company but the security guard. Ronki thought about it and discussed with others that whether he should tell sapna about that but he raelized what will she say to him hat u have such a petty job for my brother.
He Phoned other frnds in the city and enquired about vaccancies but in vain. What to do know. On th other hand Sapna was calling him every hour to enquire about the status and Ronki had to tell that he was doing. The day passed with lot of tension for Prem and Ronki was exhausted as he had phoned to more than 30 frnds and some more people. Nothing suitable found. He called sapna and told her that He would be tring it tommorow as he got 2 or 3 good job offers but it demands time.
"No problem, but make it fast dear!!" she said.
After a exhausting day it felt great to hear "Dear" from ur dreamgirl.
"Ya, do not Worry!!"He said and smiled.
Gang was on the way back to hostel in Maruti Omni. Rajesh Shirivastav Again Convinced Ronki about the party beacuse she called him "Dear" and this is the sure sign she is intersted in him.
"Una No 1" was brought and 7 were sitting with their glasses and again enjoyed the day as it went.
To be Continued......
After hitting the snooze button of the alarm for 3 times Ronki finally manged to get out of bed with head aching and soaring like hell. This has become an annoying practise daily for Ronki as Mohan still not compliant to setting alarm bit late and this had lead to altercations between duo many times. Ronki believe in doozing till late in the morning and usually late in reaching the office as he spent sleepness nights because he is insomanic and now as he is in love made him fantasise about Sapna and more sleepness nights lay ahead. Mohan was still in bed and sleeping, it may seem he hadn't heard the alarm which is usually the case when he drink the night before. It was time for Ronki to prove to Mohan that he can also get ready early so he without disturbing Mohan started proceedings of the day.
Ronki, Anna, Rajesh and Deven reached the office earlier than the schedule time which has become habbit with other 3. Ronki like alwayz was not feeling energetic and quickly searched for his long time, true and honest associate Sumit as he has some secret ways of providing energy in the forms of Navy Cut, Gold Flake and Classic Mild too. And also when u believe u r in love, the Caffeine and Grass become an indespensible part of your daily routine. The day starts off for most of people in the company
by planning about which work will take priority whether chatting, downloading, e-mailing, wallpapers, movies, songs or discussing and advicing other colleagues about company and witting about top management. Company is about to launch new product and top brass is busy discussing and planning about it whereas junior and middle management is somewhat relaxed and their work will start after top management approves the product. Ronki list was alwayz full of chatting and dating over internnet. He has membership of some of the elite frndship clubs prevaling over internet. But as he has finaaly found her dreamate chatting with others just seemed to immaterialistic.
Ronki just outside where he was grassing and waiting anxiously for Sapna's Arrival @ office and was fantasing about her when some earth shattering, mind boggling happen. Sapna was sitting on back of the bike with a guy who has " I hate the Whole World" look and strong pyshique. A real dude he was and Ronki was a complete looser compared to him. Ronki could not believe what he just saw. Ronkis nerves just ripped apart, he was instantenously in to mantel shock. He just left her outside the building and left. As she was about to move in to the building she noticed Ronki and waved "Hi". "Hello" said ronki with a cold face. "What Happened, Is everything All right??" she enquired. What could Ronki say that my life has been ruined by you. "Nothing, Just some sleep problems" Ronki Replied.
After passing the regular "Hi" and "Hellos" to other employees to keep the culture going Ronki sat @ his desk with his head pointing upwards and cursing god when he was interrupted by Mohan & Sunil who just arrived. Sunihis punjabi Style asked Ronki "Hor bhi Kake Kidan Pher, Aaj Jaldi, Ki kehndi hai Bharjai pher(Hi Dude!!, Wassup, Today Early, Howz Sister-in-Law)" Instead of laughing Ronki face reflected that he did not like this question and Mohan realized this and asked whats the matter. Ronki needed some one to pile on his hatered feeling about the guy and he quickly narrated the story. "Oh shit!!!" Came the reply. Even Sunil and Mohan were shocked as they were planning on the way from Hostel to Office that they would ask Sapna to find two gals for them when she will become our bhabhi. Their Dreams were also doomed.
The duo settled to their seats and was planning and thinking about any way out. 2 or 3 hours have been passed when the Phone of Ronki satrted ringing. Sapna was on the line. After the generall disussion she finally asked Ronki if he had noticed she came along with her brother in the morning on bike and whether he liked him. "Yes Yes Of course!!! He is a great dude!!!, What a bhai" said Ronki. Ronki could not believe. Ronki alwayz believe God can not be so cruel to him.
"Could Yoy please do me a favour" said sapna.
"My pleasure, Anything for You" said Ronki.
"Actually he is without a job, and he needs a job badly. Would u be kind enough to forward his Resume to HR Deptt." she requested.
"Ya Ya Forward it on my ID and i will made him recruitted by the company" said ronki. Its such a feeling that gal u loved demanded something from u for the very first time and u start believing all the things in the world are under your control even the HR and CEO of the company and nobody can dare to disrespect and challenge ur authority.
"Thanks, i would be sending" She said and replaced the reciever.
Ronki was now as happy as anybody can in this whole world. He instantenously broke this such a wonderful news to others. He got to made his Brother-in-Law enter in this company @ any cost and that to very quickly. Went off to Mr. Panda of HR for discussion and get to know company is currently on hold of fresh recriutment. He insisted further that whether any junior
position is vaccant. Even the Peons position were full. and by looking @ the CV of her brother Peon position would seem distant. Peon was Gradutae an knew english. But Prem her brother stopped his Study during 3rd year of BA and had lot of grammatical errors in his CV. Though he had listed lot of Hobbys in his CV such as Karate, Tawekondo, Boxing etc. There can not be any job in the company but the security guard. Ronki thought about it and discussed with others that whether he should tell sapna about that but he raelized what will she say to him hat u have such a petty job for my brother.
He Phoned other frnds in the city and enquired about vaccancies but in vain. What to do know. On th other hand Sapna was calling him every hour to enquire about the status and Ronki had to tell that he was doing. The day passed with lot of tension for Prem and Ronki was exhausted as he had phoned to more than 30 frnds and some more people. Nothing suitable found. He called sapna and told her that He would be tring it tommorow as he got 2 or 3 good job offers but it demands time.
"No problem, but make it fast dear!!" she said.
After a exhausting day it felt great to hear "Dear" from ur dreamgirl.
"Ya, do not Worry!!"He said and smiled.
Gang was on the way back to hostel in Maruti Omni. Rajesh Shirivastav Again Convinced Ronki about the party beacuse she called him "Dear" and this is the sure sign she is intersted in him.
"Una No 1" was brought and 7 were sitting with their glasses and again enjoyed the day as it went.
To be Continued......
Thursday, June 21, 2007
Ronki Ram In Love
Preface: Its my first work of Fiction. I would be writing the story in chunks as it comes along on regular basis.
Disclaimer: This is pure work of Fiction. The names, places bear no resemblance with any of living or dead, if this happens then it should be considered purely as coincidence.
Introduction:
Its story about 7 colleagues who met in a corporate office of a fortune 500 company for the first time. Afterwards they started living in the same hostle. Despite of cultural differnces they go on and become unseparateable and close frnds. This story tells us about the pain, joy, tirbulations, frustations, excitement they shared while working and staying together.
Characters:
1. Ronki Ram 2. Sunil Pal 3. Anna Reddy 4. Mohan Kapoor 5. Rajesh Shirivastav 6. Deven 7. Saurabh
Brief Profile of Ronki & His Frnds:
1. Ronki: He is a manager in the company. He believes in himself, Has a strong commitment for his family and believe in miracles. A very sociable person, he is somewhat shy of girls. He has just met a girl who he considered as her dream girl and waiting for her from eternity.
2. Sunil Pal: Sunil, a punjabi and real cheerleader among the group. He is in Junior level, but the thoughts the ideas is neverthless of top mangemnt. He is a prankster and always pulling leg of other people. Currently he is confused about which career to take on. Commited
3. Anna Reddy: Anna is also a manager in company and very clsoe frnd of Ronki. He is also a very sociable person and real dude. Women lot of young women are alwayz on his top priority. He is yet to meet his dreamgirl. Currently he covets for one girl, but she keep on ignoring him. Single.
4. Mohan Kapoor: Mohan is in Middle level. He is focused and well directed towards his goals. A kind of creative in arts and music. He believes in working hard. Not very sociable. His Pehla Pyars (First Loves) keep on shifting. Single and yet to find his dream girl.
5. Rajesh Shirivastav: Mr. Rajesh is eldest among all. An experinced person and in manger level. He has lessons of life with him. A real comedian. Married over 25 years. He is the ideal company to be with. He is always full of energy and vibrant. Alwaz ready to help others and very sociable.
6. Deven: Deven is in junior level and really Loquacious person, a womenizer, stylish and sociable person. He is courageous and alwayz lives in his city of dreams. He has somewhat less understanding of this real world.
7. Saurabh: Saurabh is the reserved guy among all. He is also a manger in company. He is got the style but few words. Very helpful and resourcefull person and insider of company matters. Single and yet to find his dream girl.
Day 1
It was the middle of weekday and really an ideal day for the employees, no work, no assignments, no meetings, no brainstorming sessions, no client meeting whatsoever. Its feel great to seat ideally and keep on chatting on google and yahoo afterall ther are lot of girls to be found out. Every one was taking it easy but Ronki was feeling restless, he wanted to meet sapna, the girl he just met couple of days back in his office, she is a new joiny in the junior level. She is too hot to be described, kind of gal everybody dream off and make ur heart melt. Ronki like others was immediately in love with her on the very first day. He just wanted to be with her, spend time with her and that to very quickly afterall competition from his peer group was mounting over. So he kept going over and over again to her place where others were somewhat afraid. Sunil had tried many times but was unsucceful, though he had already an afair going but who in this world hates polygamy. And to evrybodys surprise she responded to Ronki and responded pretty well. Ronki completly lost his mind and jumping out of his skin with joy. Sapna asked ronki for Lunch and without even a seconds delay Ronki forsaked his older colleagues whom with he usally takes lunch. Having bored of Parnthas from mes everyday it was his chance to have something fresh and pure from home and besides that it was different magnetic feeling in and all. Everybody knows to call mes food, food would be too genurous. He wished lunch time may not get over, he enjoyed even the small glimpse of her eyes and loved how her hair flowing down on her face like trecherous roads on the mountain. After having such a wonderful lunch for the very first time in life he sat on his seat still in oblivion and unconcerned about his colleagues taunts. He was not even saying to himself i despise these morons as he usually do when somebody taunts on him and teases him as he got upset easily. He wanted to again stick to her place but he realized what if the top management will find about it and will call him "Chipku" so he badly wanted a different avenu. Its really advantage of this great great digital age that finding a people is not a herculean task anymore and he was soon talking sharing his views with her.
The day end with lot of satisfaction and he was commuting to his hostle along with the gang (the other 6 who just shifted to same hostle one night before), a cavernous building in crowded "Ville Parle" area of mumbai. There were lot of congrats being offered to the heroic Ronki as he was no less than hero anymore. The gang demanded a party from Ronki and Ronki was so much happy that he could not refused. Ronki, Sunil, Rajesh, Saurabh and Devan sat with their glasses with "Una No 1" where as Mohan and Anna were taking cold drinks. Soon the bottle emptied the other was brought over and it was such a boozing party where everybody was expected to loose his control even the Suffis. It was such a magnificient feeling being together and sharing and listening each others emotions and giving valuable advices.
Ronkis emotions took over:
After everybody gave his share of advice to Rajesh on how the family function should be planned, it was now Ronki's turn to listen to something earth shattering but as he was in so much emotional uncontrol he has his own version.
Sunil usually become the "angrez" after having 1 or 2 pegs and now it was Ronkis turn to explain his feelings. "I love Her" was his first words then followed by "With a pure heart" "I will do anything for her" "She is mine Just Mine". To every body's surprise he uttered a rather unsuall sermon, the perfect "sheaar" which is something like this.
Mila Najre Nigahon Se
Hattu Na Pyar ki Rahon se
Mujhe Tumse Mohbaat Hai
Keh du In Behti Hawaon Se
Wah Wah Wah !!!!!!!! was the immediate response. But the prankster was also in the mood. He announced that he has seen sapna with someother guy (the name of the guy he wonot disclose
as he is in the same company) giving her lift to home. The emotional werckage is bound to followed. Soon there were galli gloch for that guy. Anna, Mohan stood by Ronki and declared whatever it may come they will be by his side and would not hesitate to break the legs of Mr. X. It was such a dutch courage that even the entire army of the country can be beaten down. Ronki was weeping and querlling on floor like a child, how can this be true, he loves her and he was also convinced that she loves him too. Where the hell from this Mr. X came. He was confronting god and even Sunil but could not say anything to him as he alwayz felt strong affinty with Sunil. All adviced him not to worry and followed him to dining table and and after dinner Mohan And Ronki went to their room. Mohan quickly drifted off to sleep and Ronki Kept on thinking about Sapna, Mr. X and Sunil's conformation all night long................
To be Continued
Disclaimer: This is pure work of Fiction. The names, places bear no resemblance with any of living or dead, if this happens then it should be considered purely as coincidence.
Introduction:
Its story about 7 colleagues who met in a corporate office of a fortune 500 company for the first time. Afterwards they started living in the same hostle. Despite of cultural differnces they go on and become unseparateable and close frnds. This story tells us about the pain, joy, tirbulations, frustations, excitement they shared while working and staying together.
Characters:
1. Ronki Ram 2. Sunil Pal 3. Anna Reddy 4. Mohan Kapoor 5. Rajesh Shirivastav 6. Deven 7. Saurabh
Brief Profile of Ronki & His Frnds:
1. Ronki: He is a manager in the company. He believes in himself, Has a strong commitment for his family and believe in miracles. A very sociable person, he is somewhat shy of girls. He has just met a girl who he considered as her dream girl and waiting for her from eternity.
2. Sunil Pal: Sunil, a punjabi and real cheerleader among the group. He is in Junior level, but the thoughts the ideas is neverthless of top mangemnt. He is a prankster and always pulling leg of other people. Currently he is confused about which career to take on. Commited
3. Anna Reddy: Anna is also a manager in company and very clsoe frnd of Ronki. He is also a very sociable person and real dude. Women lot of young women are alwayz on his top priority. He is yet to meet his dreamgirl. Currently he covets for one girl, but she keep on ignoring him. Single.
4. Mohan Kapoor: Mohan is in Middle level. He is focused and well directed towards his goals. A kind of creative in arts and music. He believes in working hard. Not very sociable. His Pehla Pyars (First Loves) keep on shifting. Single and yet to find his dream girl.
5. Rajesh Shirivastav: Mr. Rajesh is eldest among all. An experinced person and in manger level. He has lessons of life with him. A real comedian. Married over 25 years. He is the ideal company to be with. He is always full of energy and vibrant. Alwaz ready to help others and very sociable.
6. Deven: Deven is in junior level and really Loquacious person, a womenizer, stylish and sociable person. He is courageous and alwayz lives in his city of dreams. He has somewhat less understanding of this real world.
7. Saurabh: Saurabh is the reserved guy among all. He is also a manger in company. He is got the style but few words. Very helpful and resourcefull person and insider of company matters. Single and yet to find his dream girl.
Day 1
It was the middle of weekday and really an ideal day for the employees, no work, no assignments, no meetings, no brainstorming sessions, no client meeting whatsoever. Its feel great to seat ideally and keep on chatting on google and yahoo afterall ther are lot of girls to be found out. Every one was taking it easy but Ronki was feeling restless, he wanted to meet sapna, the girl he just met couple of days back in his office, she is a new joiny in the junior level. She is too hot to be described, kind of gal everybody dream off and make ur heart melt. Ronki like others was immediately in love with her on the very first day. He just wanted to be with her, spend time with her and that to very quickly afterall competition from his peer group was mounting over. So he kept going over and over again to her place where others were somewhat afraid. Sunil had tried many times but was unsucceful, though he had already an afair going but who in this world hates polygamy. And to evrybodys surprise she responded to Ronki and responded pretty well. Ronki completly lost his mind and jumping out of his skin with joy. Sapna asked ronki for Lunch and without even a seconds delay Ronki forsaked his older colleagues whom with he usally takes lunch. Having bored of Parnthas from mes everyday it was his chance to have something fresh and pure from home and besides that it was different magnetic feeling in and all. Everybody knows to call mes food, food would be too genurous. He wished lunch time may not get over, he enjoyed even the small glimpse of her eyes and loved how her hair flowing down on her face like trecherous roads on the mountain. After having such a wonderful lunch for the very first time in life he sat on his seat still in oblivion and unconcerned about his colleagues taunts. He was not even saying to himself i despise these morons as he usually do when somebody taunts on him and teases him as he got upset easily. He wanted to again stick to her place but he realized what if the top management will find about it and will call him "Chipku" so he badly wanted a different avenu. Its really advantage of this great great digital age that finding a people is not a herculean task anymore and he was soon talking sharing his views with her.
The day end with lot of satisfaction and he was commuting to his hostle along with the gang (the other 6 who just shifted to same hostle one night before), a cavernous building in crowded "Ville Parle" area of mumbai. There were lot of congrats being offered to the heroic Ronki as he was no less than hero anymore. The gang demanded a party from Ronki and Ronki was so much happy that he could not refused. Ronki, Sunil, Rajesh, Saurabh and Devan sat with their glasses with "Una No 1" where as Mohan and Anna were taking cold drinks. Soon the bottle emptied the other was brought over and it was such a boozing party where everybody was expected to loose his control even the Suffis. It was such a magnificient feeling being together and sharing and listening each others emotions and giving valuable advices.
Ronkis emotions took over:
After everybody gave his share of advice to Rajesh on how the family function should be planned, it was now Ronki's turn to listen to something earth shattering but as he was in so much emotional uncontrol he has his own version.
Sunil usually become the "angrez" after having 1 or 2 pegs and now it was Ronkis turn to explain his feelings. "I love Her" was his first words then followed by "With a pure heart" "I will do anything for her" "She is mine Just Mine". To every body's surprise he uttered a rather unsuall sermon, the perfect "sheaar" which is something like this.
Mila Najre Nigahon Se
Hattu Na Pyar ki Rahon se
Mujhe Tumse Mohbaat Hai
Keh du In Behti Hawaon Se
Wah Wah Wah !!!!!!!! was the immediate response. But the prankster was also in the mood. He announced that he has seen sapna with someother guy (the name of the guy he wonot disclose
as he is in the same company) giving her lift to home. The emotional werckage is bound to followed. Soon there were galli gloch for that guy. Anna, Mohan stood by Ronki and declared whatever it may come they will be by his side and would not hesitate to break the legs of Mr. X. It was such a dutch courage that even the entire army of the country can be beaten down. Ronki was weeping and querlling on floor like a child, how can this be true, he loves her and he was also convinced that she loves him too. Where the hell from this Mr. X came. He was confronting god and even Sunil but could not say anything to him as he alwayz felt strong affinty with Sunil. All adviced him not to worry and followed him to dining table and and after dinner Mohan And Ronki went to their room. Mohan quickly drifted off to sleep and Ronki Kept on thinking about Sapna, Mr. X and Sunil's conformation all night long................
To be Continued
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Procrastination - How does It Works
Webster Define Procrastination as:
Slowness as a consequence of not getting around to it.
Lets Elaborate Procrastination little bit More:
Procrastination is the deferment or putting-off of an action which requires immediate attention, usually by focusing on some other distraction.
Recently, the subject has attracted considerable attention in the domain of psychology, and research has been conducted into the whys and wherefores of individuals' predilection for procrastination.
Procrastination can be a persistent trait in some people, known as chronic procrastinators, where it is usually associated with perfectionism, a tendency to negatively evaluate outcomes and one's own performance, intense fear and avoidance of evaluation of one's abilities by others, heightened social self-consciousness and anxiety, recurrent low mood, and workaholism. It may be causative of significant psychological disability and dysfunction in many dimensions of life over time. Chronic procrastinators have the plight of often being stuck in a vicious circle, fuelled by their own perfectionism, that "good enough" outcomes are often negatively evaluated by themselves, eventually leading to an inability to carry out even simple activities; this is worsened by the fact that often their efforts to escape chronic procrastination dig them even deeper into it. There is, unfortunately, widespread ignorance about this problem, even amongst mental health professionals, where procrastination is often trivially thought of in its simplest and most benign forms of seeking pleasurable sensations irresponsibly at the expense of being reliable. A milder form of procrastination is also common in students, in which it is known as academic procrastination.
Many societies and cultures have become associated (rightly or wrongly) by stereotype with procrastination; a notable example being the Spanish for whom the word mañana or "tomorrow" has become reinforcingly synonymous with their legendary stereotypical predilection for siestas. In modern society, however, it should be noted that the siesta is rapidly disappearing from Spanish society.
The term is referenced as a proverb: "Procrastination is the thief of time". This conveys the meaning that deferment is both negative and wasteful of the time on which the action could properly could be completed. Don Marquis neatly parodied this adage with the following: "Procrastination is the art of keeping up with yesterday".
Procrastination is considered a virtue by some groups such as slackers and the Church of the SubGenius.
Slowness as a consequence of not getting around to it.
Lets Elaborate Procrastination little bit More:
Procrastination is the deferment or putting-off of an action which requires immediate attention, usually by focusing on some other distraction.
Recently, the subject has attracted considerable attention in the domain of psychology, and research has been conducted into the whys and wherefores of individuals' predilection for procrastination.
Procrastination can be a persistent trait in some people, known as chronic procrastinators, where it is usually associated with perfectionism, a tendency to negatively evaluate outcomes and one's own performance, intense fear and avoidance of evaluation of one's abilities by others, heightened social self-consciousness and anxiety, recurrent low mood, and workaholism. It may be causative of significant psychological disability and dysfunction in many dimensions of life over time. Chronic procrastinators have the plight of often being stuck in a vicious circle, fuelled by their own perfectionism, that "good enough" outcomes are often negatively evaluated by themselves, eventually leading to an inability to carry out even simple activities; this is worsened by the fact that often their efforts to escape chronic procrastination dig them even deeper into it. There is, unfortunately, widespread ignorance about this problem, even amongst mental health professionals, where procrastination is often trivially thought of in its simplest and most benign forms of seeking pleasurable sensations irresponsibly at the expense of being reliable. A milder form of procrastination is also common in students, in which it is known as academic procrastination.
Many societies and cultures have become associated (rightly or wrongly) by stereotype with procrastination; a notable example being the Spanish for whom the word mañana or "tomorrow" has become reinforcingly synonymous with their legendary stereotypical predilection for siestas. In modern society, however, it should be noted that the siesta is rapidly disappearing from Spanish society.
The term is referenced as a proverb: "Procrastination is the thief of time". This conveys the meaning that deferment is both negative and wasteful of the time on which the action could properly could be completed. Don Marquis neatly parodied this adage with the following: "Procrastination is the art of keeping up with yesterday".
Procrastination is considered a virtue by some groups such as slackers and the Church of the SubGenius.
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Boozing Around - Eating Grass
Well u r tempted to say same old boring discussion...Everyone talks ill bout it and still can not let it go......Its the hip in every parties and functions.......The statstics shows a handsome increase in the amount of consumption of liquor every year.......So that means more and more people are drinking and enjoying........Alwaz many questions surfaces up when there is general discussion about alchol....like.....Is it worth while to try (for the people who have not given it a try)???......Whether its good or bad for health and what are the effects???.......Does is really leads to addiction??? What are its Soical Impacts on Family and Society in General???......Bla Bla Bla......Well i do not have the faculty and research to look into the implication of the effects the causes so i wonot be answering these questions....But i will tell u my personal experiances and the joy the pain it had given me..........
Disclaimer: This is to inform u that.....to till date i haven't stopped boozing complety but have limited it in amount..........
The making of an MBA (Masters in Being An Alcholic)
Boozing I just loved it......Whether it was in Dhabas, Five stars, Hostle, College Canteen and Complex......I started getting high after +2 exams.......When My Mentor, My guru Rajan Dhingra introduced me to it.......and i have had no courage to disapprove this supreme faculty and say "NO" to him......and since then there is no stopping back....Though i drank I glass of Beer then and felt a high level of accomplishment and felt i am gone mature and too big........Afterwards it was the start of My Wonderful college days and Beautiful Glassi Junctions......Everybody needs frnds in college and want to get along with strangers as soon as possible......Like others i was stuck with the philosphy.......Boozing helps u to make frnds easily early and in great no.........We did not believe in any of the books about human relationship and even Despised the Wonderful Dale Carnegies' Books........Mitran Di Motor te.........Was our daily and favourite Punchline then..........We enjoyed going to partys where we could found daru and usually we were in a group when only one person had got the invitation......There were regular Glassi Junctions In rooms with Rampura Boyz and sometimes with Some Other Class mates.........I used to drink with Cold Drink Alwayz as it gave me somewhat sweet taste than the hard and smelly taste of alchol......Days passed by and we were almost near completing our term in GZSCET...By then almost 70 % of almost suffis started drinking and it was such a wonderful pride being associated with the person who is on high majority of times.......Many avoided company of the people who did not drink that time and those guys were considered Bullshit........The last days passed we getting high almost regularly on daily basis........we sometimes Atteneded lectuers when we were completly lost control by having a bottle or 2 of beer........By then I also started having it in my native place and informed my family members about it that i only take it in partys......i used to went home Completly "Tull" many times......thought mom would never find it.......But it was not too long I was caught red handed and had to avoid it........Then after Graduating i went to delhi...Regular Glassi Junction Followed......Started feeling the efects by then......Then from Great Great Daru Lover Mr. Amit Singla i found that Avoid Daru with Cold drink......It really Causes u Health Problem....Then there was my journey and stay at Chandigarh that follwed Boozing practise almost 4 or 5 times a week........Sector 18 da Ahata was our famous Spot......and who can forgot the 21 sector Gupta ji room.......we were alwaz on high.....By then i have inducted a strong habit of ringing people even in the middle of night beacuse i have not recieved their phone in 2 or 3 days......Also started Calling Girls on their nos wherevr i found from.........There wer hangovers and headaches......but i did not care....boozing that i just care then......Office become our adda some times where we can enjoy free AC Air.......Found wonderful Frnds and company who did not refuse and we have glassi junction regularly........By then i have realized the effects of Boozing...sometimes my hands shiver...sometimes i could not concentrate.......Then after taking harsh decision i finally left Chandigarh.......Then i came to delhi and having made myself a promise i will refrain myself from everykind of intoxication........I found a company to whom I could not refused.......Staying in guest house i meet lot of intersting and new people....There were always parties when anybody bought Jeans, Shirts even Underwear......Chacha Had introduced us to "Pinni Pinni Hai"........After spending 3 months in company and boozing regularly.....i started getting regular stomach problems........the quality of daru was low in delhi which may be the cause..... i realized its my wake up call to limit myself to boozing........once or twice in month would be ok than in a week.........
Epilouge:
Chacha and I have made promise to ourselves that we would continue to limit the boozing as far as possible and would continue to follow on spirtual path.....Hare Ram!!!!
Disclaimer: This is to inform u that.....to till date i haven't stopped boozing complety but have limited it in amount..........
The making of an MBA (Masters in Being An Alcholic)
Boozing I just loved it......Whether it was in Dhabas, Five stars, Hostle, College Canteen and Complex......I started getting high after +2 exams.......When My Mentor, My guru Rajan Dhingra introduced me to it.......and i have had no courage to disapprove this supreme faculty and say "NO" to him......and since then there is no stopping back....Though i drank I glass of Beer then and felt a high level of accomplishment and felt i am gone mature and too big........Afterwards it was the start of My Wonderful college days and Beautiful Glassi Junctions......Everybody needs frnds in college and want to get along with strangers as soon as possible......Like others i was stuck with the philosphy.......Boozing helps u to make frnds easily early and in great no.........We did not believe in any of the books about human relationship and even Despised the Wonderful Dale Carnegies' Books........Mitran Di Motor te.........Was our daily and favourite Punchline then..........We enjoyed going to partys where we could found daru and usually we were in a group when only one person had got the invitation......There were regular Glassi Junctions In rooms with Rampura Boyz and sometimes with Some Other Class mates.........I used to drink with Cold Drink Alwayz as it gave me somewhat sweet taste than the hard and smelly taste of alchol......Days passed by and we were almost near completing our term in GZSCET...By then almost 70 % of almost suffis started drinking and it was such a wonderful pride being associated with the person who is on high majority of times.......Many avoided company of the people who did not drink that time and those guys were considered Bullshit........The last days passed we getting high almost regularly on daily basis........we sometimes Atteneded lectuers when we were completly lost control by having a bottle or 2 of beer........By then I also started having it in my native place and informed my family members about it that i only take it in partys......i used to went home Completly "Tull" many times......thought mom would never find it.......But it was not too long I was caught red handed and had to avoid it........Then after Graduating i went to delhi...Regular Glassi Junction Followed......Started feeling the efects by then......Then from Great Great Daru Lover Mr. Amit Singla i found that Avoid Daru with Cold drink......It really Causes u Health Problem....Then there was my journey and stay at Chandigarh that follwed Boozing practise almost 4 or 5 times a week........Sector 18 da Ahata was our famous Spot......and who can forgot the 21 sector Gupta ji room.......we were alwaz on high.....By then i have inducted a strong habit of ringing people even in the middle of night beacuse i have not recieved their phone in 2 or 3 days......Also started Calling Girls on their nos wherevr i found from.........There wer hangovers and headaches......but i did not care....boozing that i just care then......Office become our adda some times where we can enjoy free AC Air.......Found wonderful Frnds and company who did not refuse and we have glassi junction regularly........By then i have realized the effects of Boozing...sometimes my hands shiver...sometimes i could not concentrate.......Then after taking harsh decision i finally left Chandigarh.......Then i came to delhi and having made myself a promise i will refrain myself from everykind of intoxication........I found a company to whom I could not refused.......Staying in guest house i meet lot of intersting and new people....There were always parties when anybody bought Jeans, Shirts even Underwear......Chacha Had introduced us to "Pinni Pinni Hai"........After spending 3 months in company and boozing regularly.....i started getting regular stomach problems........the quality of daru was low in delhi which may be the cause..... i realized its my wake up call to limit myself to boozing........once or twice in month would be ok than in a week.........
Epilouge:
Chacha and I have made promise to ourselves that we would continue to limit the boozing as far as possible and would continue to follow on spirtual path.....Hare Ram!!!!
Monday, June 18, 2007
Sudden Demise of Ketan's Mother
Hearing the news i was shocked to my soul...how can this be happened and more particularly why this happened.........Ketan and Kamal use to go emotional sometimes........They are not ready to accept the turbulances of life sometimes i feel....but this sudden death of ketan's mother just completly shook all of us.......there was a family i know who was alwayz happy and alwaz together....but life took its toil and has given a strong blow.........what all seemed a wonderful life just seemed doomed now.......there were lots of whys being asked now to god and to oneself...why these kind of things happen to me only.....I know there are no specific answers to these myriads of questions.......but i know for a sure.......it gave me a lesson a strong lesson......i was alwaz busy with my own world......i did not have time for my family and sometimes to my frnds......i used to think i would be happy when i do this and when i would get to this position.......but the joy the bliss u miss during this time is not recountable.........alwaz i keep on putting it to latter date which should be on my top priority..........After having seen the conditions of poor ketan...i realized that its true that life is indeed too short...and what time we have should be enjoyed than to worry or brooding about past and future........I know the philoshical books advocates same theorey but to fit it into ur life is really a herculean task......i know we are here to fight...life eventually wants us to win...to conquer evry problems.......we will all fight.....and i know for a sure that ketan would have courage enough to fight all the difficulties and will finally emerge as a winner........Bless Ya!!!!!!!!!!!
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
Finally I declared myslef Narcissist
It took me long and Finally i admitted i am a Narcissist. I love my Apperance, i love my Ideas, i love my philosphy, i love my Life.
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